the beating game: A WOMAN’S DOSE
Posted by Melting Ice Towers
What do we have to say about the battering of men? Is there not something much healthier that can be done to help deal with such men? There are many methods that women need to incorporate to help their men escape the wanders and limbos of the drunk-world. When they reach such heights of being drunkard in extreme, they are sick and they need close attention and monitoring. What can you as a wife do? Crude methods such as chopping off their manhood, splashing them with hot water are not going to help in any way.
They will still be your husbands but much worse, with a bad look and status as you inflicted them to such uncouth punishments. A woman who chops of his husband’s genitalia as punishment will always have a bad name in the society despite feeling so great; but a woman who transforms her husband to be a great man in the community is always respected and upheld. There are special methods that when used well, you may be very happy when your husband transforms to be that good gentleman that everyone admires. As a wife, you will always be happy to have saved your man from the abyss of death.
We have come up with some ways that may be fruitful when practiced professionally and with great commitment. They have worked in many families.
As a wife, you are the closest human being residing next to your man. Every morning when you wake up before you go to work, you should always inform him of the dangers of alcoholism and do the deadly repercussions that follows. When doing this, show a lot of compassion and care as you need him to change. Shouting and blaming him will not work well. Hold him well and tell him point blank about how you care of him and the family; and the reason he should stop drinking. Do this again when he reports home from work and when sleeping. He will always remember when he goes out there to have a drink with his friends.
As we all know, an addict cannot just wake up one day and realize he needs to stop drinking and ceases. It goes systematically. Those who stop immediately get (alcoholism withdrawal,) which is a bad condition.
As a wife, look for (advises from experts) to advice you on some less harmful alcohol products and those with low percentages of methanol that may work best for alcohol addicts. Informing your husband about it may work in a great way especially of the latter agrees and starts the dosage.
If he is ready to change, he will.
Make sure he does not hook up with the company he goes on a drinking spree with. You do not have to follow him all through. All you need to do is inform him about it before and after he comes home from work. Inform him about how you feel when he hooks up with some men out there who do not have standards and those men that make him have a bad name. Tell him you do not want him to be on the loose end and make sure you do this passionately. Anything a man receives passionately from his wife always sticks in his mind.
KEEP HIM BUSY
You always know that very moment when he decides to go out to get a drink. This time around, make sure he does not walk out like that. Engage him in certain great activities like you can tell him about going for a walk together, do exercises together or something else that will make him happy than the drink would. Just do something that you know he likes that will always force him to stay at home rather than go out there drinking.
KEEP YOUR TEMPER DOWN
It gets bad when he gets home drunk and with no money for supper. He comes staggering and he is almost beating you up. Avoid his aggressions and keep your temper down. If its punishment, harming him in uncouth and unrespectable ways i.e. chopping off his genitals or bathing him in extremely hot water doesn’t help in any way.
To the man
It is so bad when you drink that you walk staggering while losing balance and falling on the murky pools of water. When you walk in between the village and apartment aisles abusing every tom and dick you meet on your way. You lose all the masculine features you have and your dignity is reaped off. If you are not an addict now, please do not wait for it. Start enforcing health matters first and avoid that stage. It is not good. For the addicts, seek medical attention and always be on your look out. Avoid that bad company and make sure you drink responsibly. Cheap alcohol is deadly. That is an observation that we have made.
If you care for your wife and kids, you should behave in a responsible way. They look unto you to show them a good example. A woman finds you useless and of no use if all you do is get drunk and get home thrashing both the wife and the kids while hurling abuses all over the neighborhood.
For the young youth who have started taking illicit brews, try to avoid them before the worst befalls you. People are really suffering from alcohol addiction. Illicit brews have killed many here in Kenya and they will continue devouring one by one if not kept on the check.
We all have a duty to end the new wave of illicit brews that is taking our men. The coming generation has been adversely affected by the new disaster. It is devouring men gradually and with no mercy. The new wave first makes its way into you and strips of your dignity when you display arrogance in the face of the public by doing the unthinkable when the poison has reached its peak; the last moments come when you are in a ditch or when lucky, lying in a hospital bed critically ill. You should not end like that. You have a right to live young man!
Change for the best.
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Posted on October 8, 2015, in shocking, SOCIAL LIFE and tagged central kenya illicit brew, drunk behaviour, drunk ladies and men, fight for illicit brew in central kenya, illicit brew in kenya, mt. kenya region illicit brew, second generation brews, swarm of illicit brew. Bookmark the permalink. 5 Comments.