FISIOLOGÍA DEL AMOR

FISIOLOGÍA DEL AMOR                    FISIOLOGÍA DEL AMOR   

This is a cycle that most people have persevered-thru  and they are aware it exists. It is always a cycle that involves a lot of commitment, tenderness [not the medical meaning], intimacy, hate, forgiveness and the cycle starts again.  In Amor verdadero (true love), the cycle becomes evident in a couple’s life. They love, hate, get back together and life continues.  

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It starts with that single glance -The stare of a timing tiger. It ascends languidly through the days of fantasy and thought. The feelings accelerates in either one or both couples. It is just a natural phenomenon to love. True love does not hide itself nor mask itself with a hyena’s skin. It just comes out in an open, unexplainable clear way. In one way or the other, the two interact and slowly, gradually, they start coming-in-the-know that they are truly attracted in some way to each other.

A SINGLE GLANCE
A TIMING GLANCE,
AT THE PERFECT TIME

 You start interacting together in many different things in somewhat of a coincidentally way. You feel good doing things together. Actually, you do not know how. It just comes out in that haphazard way in unexplained circumstances. You feel great when she/he accompanies you in a certain event. Sometimes, you feel jealous when he/she has a company of other people whether ladies/dudes. It just happens normally. Up to this moment, you have not informed him/her about your feeling of attraction. You are tensed and fully aware that he/she loves you back. You lack the strength to act and you continuously ask yourself daily of how you will approach her and ‘demolish the ice on his/her face’ that you truly love them. You buy more time waiting the appropriate moment.

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 As days accelerate, you start being insecure and you ask yourself such questions, ‘What am I getting myself into?’ ‘Does this feeling I have affect everybody like this who is in love?’ ‘Am I really normal?’ ‘What if he/she doesn’t love me?’  ‘No, no… I must talk to him/her today about this’ you garner enough courage to approach the one you are truly attracted to and head for the idea.  

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As the day approaches, you make sure you are ready. That means been alert psychologically, physically, emotionally and in all kinds of phenomena. You walk to them and express that cool, smiley and accommodative face. In most cases, the smile just makes the other one smile too. Your embodiment and body physique just stands expressing a lot of your-wholly-appreciative heart.  You try to speak but no words get out. You even start informing them something very different to what you had planned. You confuse and in most cases, the first expression always blunders in one way or the other. It is natural.

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The other partner sees it in you as you try to express yourself in a disguised-dismay way and in most cases they note that there is something between you two. At last, you just get yourself meeting up with him/her somewhere cordially either in a restaurant, hotel, dinner plaza or some cool place and you find yourself holding their waist or hands and you feel different in their arms. If at all you hug that time no matter the length of the hug, it is just so fantastic and you feel very different from the common hugs from other people.

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 The couple grows gradually. The days are joyful and happy moods dominate the early relationship. Despite anybody saying the word love to the other, they already know of their cordial relationship. They know they are in love. Sacrifices to survive the relationship come in handy. Sacrifices and commitments come demanding and sometimes you feel you want to attend some other functions but the relationship keeps you from doing your usual undesirable things. You feel as if you are doing wrong to the one who you really feel intimate with. Both of you feel you are just changed from your usual activities. When one attends a certain unstoppable events, you feel that gap in your heart. You feel as if you are losing someone. Nevertheless, your conscious keeps informing you that you have that strong partner. One who is strong to withstand all the treacheries of life and keep to the commandment. In Amor verdadero (true love), this comes out so openly. Its normal.  

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The feeling of hate engulfs on some small mistakes and you hate your partner with passion. A single lie, feeling of rejection and some very weird reasons make you feel you do not deserve him/her and it gets too much that you decide to walk away. You find your space and you come to your realization that the relationship is consuming much of your time. Most give up in this phase of situation. In Amor verdadero (true love), this is not the end. He/she texts you and you feel you are not in the need to respond. You feel they did something so wrong to you that they do not deserve your love again but you still love him/her.

YOU FEEL BAD TO HAVE WRONGED THE PERSON WHO MAKES EVERYTHING GOOD FOR YOU

You also do not want to lose him/her to other people. He/she has made you or has changed and made a good impact in your life. You feel you are okay when you are with them. You start flashbacking all the great times that you have shared and the great words you shared. You feel that mistake is so minimal to cost the whole of your  relationship. You feel you cannot afford to lose what you worked so hard to get.  

YOU DON’T WANT TO RELEASE THE ROPE TYING THE LOOSE BOND BETWEEN YOU TWO.

Something just informs you to respond back to his/her call. The going is tough as he/she truly apologizes and promises to change. The hug when both of you are crying or when he/she is crying because of love is always a sign of strengthened relationship that is bound to last. The drop/roll of tear that one sheds because of love is always a marker that strengthens love. That tear tells a lot in a relationship. Its involuntary and it just happens when you feel you are really sorry for something you did or when you feel so hard to accept him/her back but you accept them back because of love.  After some hours or days, you are back to usual with him or her and the cycle continues. 

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 In Amor verdadero (true love), one does not go looking for another dude/lady when you get into a heated disagreement with the one you love. You feel you can never try such a thing. You feel guilty of trying anything stupid. You do not want to lose them. All you want is the good relationship to go as it was –back to normal. Your mood changes to other people when you know ‘home’ is not okay. Some of your friends note that you are not in your usual moods.  

YOU BOTH RECONCILE AND MAKE NEW AMENDMENTS TO GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

 

After the reconciliation and progressive disagreements, you get to learn what he/she loves and what they dislike. You get to understand each other almost in everything and that strengthens the bond and love. You just get to do things and talk broadly to each other in ways you have never imagined. You sometimes stay together watching movies in some very weirdo poses that you imagine just in case someone was silently-‘papparazing’ you –could be the best of your album.  Moreover, life continues becoming both better and worse each and every month as you mend the holes together and stick to each other.  The better days are more and beneficial than the worse moments. 

LIFE IS BACK TO THE NORM

Nothing destroys Amor verdadero (true love) like being disloyal. It crushes the relationship-rock into pieces and the chances of reigniting it again rest as in 1%. Reconciliation and apologies rarely work in such situations. Not many get back after playing the ‘disloyal-game’. Normally, mistakes are there and they build relationships to great heights but disloyalty breaks the bond. You feel your partner destroyed, used and took advantage of you in a very gross way. You lose trust with them and you loathe relationships.

If you are really into this, kindly Respect your partner.  

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