a RHAPSODY OF BEHAVIORAL CHANGE

by [ KEN N SPERANZA ]

‘Let yourself be seen as a candle lit but not as an empty bottle to be filled’

we have stages of change in our behavior such that if any stage is interfered with, we loose our focus

A human being is a creature who’s been created in a very complicated way. Whoever believes there is no supreme being that created heaven and earth, doesn’t understand the complicated physiology of human beings. Our brain is integrated to help us differentiate good and bad. To some, they have programmed themselves that the ‘bad’ is ‘good’ and vice-versa. This happens when someone kills for pleasure or as ‘they’ say ‘when I kill a non-member of my ‘family’ I go to heaven’. Such people view killing as normal and good in the eyes of whoever watches us. Anyway, our main aim of writing this article was to understand role change and behaviour.

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How do we change our behaviour? What motivates? What is it that happens that one just changes his way of living and starts living in a completely different way? When you start thinking of such things, you get to put yourself in the shoes of someone who wants to change and you visualise on factors that may precede personal behavioural change. What are they? We have all changed our behaviours in one way or the other. Formal ways of changing behaviours are mostly in schools where the teacher tells a young kid that eating ball pen cork’s is not healthy or a mother disciplining her child because of touching dirt or playing with sharps. However, there are the non-formal ways in which we change behaviour. This is the best and most effective method of practice of changing behaviour because it comes from the inside.

part two:’HE FOLLOWED ME TO THE INSIDE’

SHERRY AND ‘THE COLLECTOR’

SHE WAS SHOCKED BEYOND HER USUAL EXPERIENCES

STORY BY [ KEN AND SPERANZA ]

click HERE FOR PART ONE

She kept banging the doors and making those grunting noises to be released by the man who had termed himself as ‘the collector’. She couldn’t imagine what was about to happen to her. Worse thoughts of rape and torture rushed through her mind as she continued kicking her legs on the dashboard and twisting her neck in that torticollis-like way in a bid to free herself. The driver stopped the vehicle at a certain rather dark place where trees had bend over covering the road as if bowing down in prayer. He opened the door and walked out towards the side of the lady and opened the front door. Even before she asked anything, she received blows and abuses hurled furiously against her. The guy pulled her outside in the dark and slapped her thighs as he made sure he curbed her mouth fully to succumb her screams to the depth of silent moans.

the TREASURED LETTER

Hello there

Valentine is around the corner

All that drives me is this pen and thoughts

Flashbacks that make me quiver

Reminding me of those candles, we are about to light

The roses that take my breathe away

I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GREAT MOMENTS

This is another year for us

A promising year of the world cultured in red

A world where we speak and shine love

Where our hearts pour out that escalating love

Illuminate each edge

 

Beauty of nature

I want to watch every minute glitter

Glitter of that satisfactory joy

Breath and let out that breathe of love

Glitter and glisten of that inbuilt power

THE WALKS AROUND THE GARDENS

Our strengths that live in us

I want to watch to us glow

Grow and blossom with love

Nurture what lies deep in us

Treasure our strongholds

THE PLAY AND THE LAUGH THAT I ALWAYS MISS

I want to watch your eyeballs bulge

As an admiration of what nature granted us

Nurture what nature gave us

Make it our small piece of art

Moreover, curve it in an artistic way

 

OTHER ARTICLES BY MIT

1. THE L- BOMB
2. SEDUCTION : JACK AND ELENA
3. FORBIDDEN PASSIONS
4. AMOR : FISIOLOGIA DEL AMOR

 

 

TORMENT: GRINDING ON THE SAW

This article revolves around the suffering of human beings precisely either internal or external torture. This can be as a result of natural, political, emotional or spiritual interventions that overwhelm the human heart to a point that they decide suicide is the best option of survival.

heavy tears of the forgotten

There comes a time in life when all you have has been deprived off you; when you feel you cannot move anymore.  The clenching of teeth and wiping tears that never ceases to roll. Your eyes change to red color for a number of weeks until you feel you cannot do it anymore. The feeling is overwhelming and excruciating. That is the time you know the real pain of suffering. 

Suffering is an excruciating situation in which you feel so deprived of something that really mattered to you. The feeling prolongs for long depending on the subject it is based upon. These can be in political instability, death, poverty, children exploitations where young children are recruited as soldiers, sex exploitation especially where women are imported secretly or conned for sex-slavery. The get into the world of massive torment and torture. A world that nobody ever wanted or believed they would ever be in. A world where all the voices you know or have heard about are related to screams and anguishing in abject torture.